Why does shit always happen to me when I’m so positive and always do the right thing?

Does it seem that everyone in your world and the universe is conspiring to make your life hell? Well then, let me tell you a tale of woe……just kidding, but really let’s talk about what actually is going on here.

We have three aspects of consciousness that feed our subconscious…..AND…. I hear you say.

First up we have the self-conscious which is our awakened state that you are using right now reading this yarn. It analyses, thinks and makes choices.

Then we have our unconscious which is our limiting belief system and is just out of our conscious awareness. This belief system is the sum of our experiences, what we have believed to be true and correct about ourselves. Our unconscious is the system that also keeps us alive. It keeps our bodily systems running, like breathing, digestion etc. without us having to think about it.

Next, we have our subconscious which is the aspect of consciousness that accepts whatever messages it receives. It doesn’t have a filter, morals or what is right and wrong, it just accepts what is fed to it constantly.

Then we have our super conscious which is our limitless knowledge, our connection to all or as some people say our intuition or God. Our superconscious knows exactly what is best for us, knows what our best life looks like and knows what our unique genius is that will contribute to the world.

So now let’s look at how all this fits and flows together.

So all these levels of consciousness feed messages into our subconscious and because it says yes to everything, the message that has the most frequency, imagery and felt experience is the message the subconscious will go with…….because obviously this is the strongest one according to our subconscious.

So, we have our conscious awareness telling us how wonderful our life is and how happy we are with all the life choices we’ve made (or not) while it goes along its everyday life analysing, thinking and making choices.

Then we have our unconscious mind which knows what we really think about ourselves (unconscious core beliefs), our life and is going to carry out what it believes is our truth. Remember that we don’t necessarily know what our beliefs are because they were created when we were a baby or child. So, if you have an unconscious belief that you deserve to be treated like shit, then your unconscious is going to make sure that your subconscious is receiving this message so it can create that reality.

Then we have our superconscious which most of us are no longer connected to. How many of you actually listen to or even hear your intuition (higher self, superconscious)? You may get that message or feeling from your intuition but someone is telling you that you should do something different so you go along with that rather than what your intuition is telling you because let’s face it, your friends or society knows you better than you right!!! Those messages from our superconscious can be so infrequently heard and acted upon that the subconscious will always go with the strongest most frequent messages.

So how do you know what your beliefs are if you’re not consciously aware of them and how do you change/resolve them? Well, that’s a whole other yarn for another time, however, feel free to contact me for more information at realmehypno@gmail.com.