Did you know a baby's first language is energy?

You know the feeling when you walk into a room and you can cut the air with a knife because people have been fighting? Or when you go to a party and you feel the happy vibe? Well, that's feeling energy, and that's what a baby will feel in utero and is their first language up until the baby is talking. 👶🏻

So what does this mean? Well, it means that baby will feel all your emotions, the good, the bad and the ugly. 😨 If you are feeling scared about having a baby, a surprise baby that isn't a happy surprise, financial or relationship stressors, love, joy and happiness will all be felt and continue to be felt after birth.

It's also very, very important to point out here and understand that there is no finger-pointing or blame, we will all take on something as a child that isn't ours and this is due to the disconnection we have with ourselves, our inability to work through traumatic situations as they are experienced. Let's face it, it's not on us, we've never been taught these skills and did I mention that there is no blame here??

So let's talk about why it's so important to know what our baby is feeling. To a child the world is all about them, so when they feel, see or hear something they interpret it as being about them. Here's an example; Mum and Dad might have a heated discussion or argument about their money problems, the baby takes on the energy surrounding that discussion and this could be anger, frustration, or fear. So, as I mentioned before, everything is about the child, so this energy they have taken on will be conceptualised as they get older and beliefs will be formed from these experiences. Our core beliefs are usually formed by the age of seven, so from the example above, we could see the child might take on the beliefs that it's all their fault that the parents have no money, I'm not wanted, I shouldn't be here, I'm not safe and money is evil. These beliefs then turn into stories that we run unconsciously and play out in the form of behavioural patterns throughout our life. So, from the beliefs in the example, the child might grow up and enter into relationships where there are money problems, not feel valued or wanted by their partner and always worried their partner might leave them. They could also be feeling anxious and unsafe all the time because there is never enough money.

But it's not all doom and gloom peeps, there are ways that we can stop these stories that are on a continuous loop so we don't have to keep living them and hand them down to the next generation. When we become aware of the behavioural patterns we are playing out then we can see the core beliefs that set these stories up. Resolve the emotional response surrounding the point of origin wounding that prompted the core beliefs and voila‛, we have identified the stories that weren't even ours to begin with and healed the original wound that started our life's trajectory.

Sounds simple right? Actually, it is if you do what's required and really want to change your life. When you make these changes in your life, life changes as you know it because it can't stay the same. The beliefs you took on as a small child changed who you innately are. When you realise that these beliefs aren't true and weren't even yours, you start to live your life authentically, the person you were born to be before all these beliefs got in the way.

If you'd like to know more about stopping the cycle of repeated patterns and start living your authentic life reach out to Lynda at realmehypno@gmail.com.

Lynda Monopoli

Amorah Healing

STARR Collective Institute of Healing